just getting started
- ud cd
- Apr 25, 2020
- 1 min read
Updated: Apr 29, 2020
First off, thanks for checking out this blog. Welcome everyone - undressers, crossdressers, significant others, and anyone who is curious about this lifestyle. While I may not venture as deep into crossdressing as other folks, I appreciate and respect their journey.
I’ve struggled with my crossdressing... I enjoy what I see in the mirror, and how a bra and panties feels on my body. But too many times, that happiness is also followed by immense guilt for liking it. I’m not nice to myself. I am certain that others go through the same thing. I have purged clothes, only to replace them again (rinse, repeat, right?).
I plan to use this blog to document things that I enjoy about underdressing, crossdressing, and other feminine things that have become part of my routine. My wife and I have had ups and downs with this (many more ups than downs thankfully), and I will post about some of the trials and tribulations we have endured together.
This is my first post... bear with me. I’ve never done anything like this before. I will do what I can to keep adding relevant content as I document my crossdressing journey. Please check out the about me page to learn a little more about me.
I am not sure where this site will go, but I hope this will be helpful/entertaining to anyone who reads it.
- udcd
So pleased to have found this blog and to know that there are others out there with the same interests and who get the same satisfaction from ud. Like so many others I remain in the closet and live with a wife who would have a thousand fits if she knew that I wear a bra (or bralet) and panties virtuaĺly everyday. I have become an expert at hiding this fact. I look forward to hearing the experiences of others.
Just like scarpa9187 I am grateful you started this blog. I believe there are so many more udcd than we could ever imagine, obviously me amongst them, and we all go through the same emotions. I know you realise how fortunate you are to have the support of your partner, I've never had that, despite the fact she knew about my love for lingerie very shortly after we started dating, 47 years in she will not even discuss it so everything I do is done in secret; you are so lucky! I've loved reading all of your stories and can't wait for the next one, keep safe.
It's hard to describe the feeling of underdressing in women's bras and panties. The panties feel so much better than men's, and a bra is sometimes necessary because of extra breast tissue, or just the secure feeling of being held in a special way, that is so hard to explain. I am a devout under dresser, every day, that I can. It is a shame the stigma that some people have against under dressing, don't knock it till you try it, and you will probably like it. My personal feelings, and I like it!
scarpa9187, I’m glad you found this blog and can relate. Thank you for taking the time to read, and sign up!
Like you I have been searching for years for similar stories and help. I can’t thank you enough to know I’m not alone in my life stye